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So you're probably wondering what tips I could possibly offer you on engaging in anal play right? Well There are some techniqes you can do and steps you can take to ensure an enjoyable experience. I was once terrified of anal sex, but the following information changed my outlook on anal sex.
Tips For The Anal Beginner
Start Off Slow!
If you're new to anal sex, remember that it isn't a race to the finish line. It takes time, patients, and trust. Eventually, you'll be able to relax to the point that your partner will be able to simply slip in with ease, but to start, take it easy.
Stimulate The Area:
Be sure that your rectum is stimulated prior to anal penetration. You may try rubbing the anus with your finger, a sex toy, a tongue, or your partners genitals. This will help the muscles relax and make anal sex much more enjoyable. The most common reason people don't have anal sex is lack of preparation. Take your time, sit back, relax and enjoy!
Use Lots Of Lube:
Better to be slippery than dry. Don't be afraid to really "cake" on the lube before anal sex. Choose a good lube that will last throughout your experience. For beginners, we recommend Elbow Grease (which is oil based so it tends to be thicker than other lubes), or Anal Eaze, which is a desensitizing lubrication designed for anal penetration. If neither lube looks appealing to you, we suggest you try an oil-based lubrication for anal sex.
  
Start Small:
If you don't feel ready to receive a penis or larger object, start out small. Try inserting a finger, a slender vibrator, or slim butt plug to get the feel of things. Gradually move your way up until you are comfortable with receiving your partner. Anal trainer kits are available to help with the process.
  
Find A Comfortable Position:
Explore various positions and pick the one you are most comfortable with. For anal sex, we suggest the following positions:
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Doggy Style - Get in position on your hands and knees and have your partner kneel behind you. If you are nice and relaxed, anal penetration is a snap!
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On Your Stomach - Lay on your stomach and have your partner lay on top of your back.You may want to lay on a pillow to raise your hips slightly, this will make anal penetration easier.
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Full Front - Lay on your back and pull your knees up to your chest. Your partner can then penetrate.
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