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Our Culture
Let's face it. Our culture plays a huge role in our everyday activities. While we are a diverse nation, one thing our culture is not open about is sex. Hands down, sex is one of the more important issues we face today, and perhaps the least talked about. Would you bring up sex, or anal sex with the person at the checkout counter? Have you ever felt weird buying condoms? Do you feel awkward at your local adult toy store? Of course you do! Yes, sex is a private, passionate act, and we don't need details, but.. we do need to be able to talk to others in order to educate ourselves on important issues. Our culture has taught us at very young ages that sex is yucky, and more so, that our ass is disgusting. Why would we want to explore an area of our body that we're taught is the nastiest part of ourselves? Most of us wouldn't. It's normal to think of anal sex as filthy and it is normal to have apprehensions about it being messy. I'll be the first to admit that was my greatest fear about anal sex and it took time and trust for me to be ready to explore the wonderful realm of anal sex.

Doesn't Anal Sex Hurt?
If anal sex hurts, stop. Pain is usually a good indication that something is wrong. When practiced properly, anal sex does not hurt! So now your asking, what do you mean "practiced properly"? Really, there isn't much to anal sex, but there are some things you need to keep in mind. First, be sure that you are comfortable with your partner. If you don't trust your partner, don't engage in anal sex. Your rectum is, after all, a muscle, and if you aren't relaxed, it is going to be tense and tight, and it certainly isn't going to "want" to be penetrated. Take some time to "soothe" the area before entry. Try rubbing it with a finger, toy, or even your partners genitals. This helps relax the muscles and will make your experience much more enjoyable. The number one rule to anal sex is relaxation.

Start Small
If you're new to anal sex, start small. Don't be afraid to tell your partner you're not ready. I'd suggest first exploring with a finger or small butt plug. Just remember, this isn't a relay race! If you are new to anal sex, you can check out our tips on anal sex for the beginner here.

Is Anal Sex Safe?
Anal sex is 100% safe! Be mindful of how you feel, and what you insert in your ass. The inside lining of your rectum is extremely soft and sensitive, so please don't place sharp objects in there. (I had to say that, cuz I know I'd get an email from one of you saying you'd hurt yourself). With that said, yes, anal sex is safe, but if you are unsure, ask your doctor. Yes, it is ok to discuss anal sex with your M.D. Be sure never to engage in unprotected anal sex as this is the easiest way to spread STD's. Always wear a condom or engage in anal sex with a monogamous partner who's history you know.

Is Anal Sex Messy?
This is the most popular question we're asked aside from "doesn't it hurt", the two seem to go hand in hand. Simply put, no, anal sex is not messy or disgusting, or smelly. As I said above, this was my greatest fear regarding anal sex and it took some time for me to change my mind. Finally, one day I said, let's do it. As with anything, use some common sense. If you feel like you have to go, don't have anal sex. If you "feel" like you have to go, then your rectum isn't empty. If you don't "feel" like you have to go, then chances are your rectum is empty. If you are really apprehensive about this, you may want to use an enema before anal sex.

Is Anal Sex Enjoyable?
Millions of people engage in anal sex everyday, so there's got to be some level of enjoyment right? Of course anal sex can be enjoyable. Your ass is filled with thousands of nerve endings, that when stimulated release "happy feeling" chemicals into your blood stream. Some find that they are turned on by the feeling of "being dirty" or doing something forbidden. For others, it is the thought of being "ultimately dominated" by their partner. The mental "taboo nature" of anal sex turns many people on. For men, it can be a totally physical experience. When the prostate is stimulated, it causes immense pleasure. Why? Well, this is where all of the seminal fluid collects, and when pressure is applied, it causes the fluid to burst out. The best analogy I can come up with is firing a gun. You pull the hammer and the bullet goes flying. This is the same concept when a man's prostate is stimulated.

Anal Sex As A Form Of Birth Control
Anal sex is a horrible form of birth control. (Who Knew??!). I always thought that if you have anal sex, you can't get pregnant - WRONG! If you are using anal sex as a sole form of birth control, you'd better have a backup (such as a condom). You're probably flabbergasted right now, I was. Ok so here's how pregnancy stems from anal sex. It is referred to as "splash conception". Technically, this is the term that describes pregnancy without vaginal sex. When it comes to anal sex, the seminal travels across the perineum (the skin that separates your vagina from your rectum) and into the vagina. An astounding 8% of couples that use anal sex as birth control conceive every year.

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