Why Buy An Anal Stimulator?

What Purpose Do They Serve?

Anal stimulators and toys can give you a very erotic experience. It is really a shame that in our culture, we are taught that anal play is wrong, dangerous and disgusting. Many people shy away from anal play in fear that their partner will think they are "dirty". Anal play can be quite exciting and bring your sex life with your partner to a whole new level. For men, anal play can provide stimulation of the prostate, resulting in instant orgasm. For women, anal play provides stimulation in never before felt areas. Your rectum is full of nerve endings just waiting to be stimulated!

Is Anal Play Safe?

Yes! With common sense of course. Anal play is totally safe for both men and women if the following guidelines are met:

1. NEVER insert sharp and/or live objects into your anus!
2. Use PLENTY of lube! The rectum, unlike the vagina is not naturally lubricated, so be sure to use plenty. You can't go overboard in using to much lube with anal play. We sell many lubrications specifically for anal play. Some, for first timers, help numb the rectum, making their first time more enjoyable. If you prefer using an oil-base lube, please remember to NEVER use oil-base lubes with vaginal penetration.
3. RELAX and Trust your instincts. If you are uncomfortable with your partner, do not engage in anal play! Anal play is only enjoyable if you are both relaxed. If this is your first time and something just doesn't feel right, stop! Maybe your chosen method is just not right for you.

There are so many, which is right for me?

Purchasing a anal toy is an intimate decision. Anal toys come in all shapes and sizes. If this is your first time, try an anal toy made for the novice. You'll also want to consider whether or not you want your anal toy to vibrate. For your first anal toy, we recommend staying away from plastic as it can be uncomfortable. For your first anal toy, try one made out of jelly, silicone or rubber. These toys have less seams than plastic and are more likely to make your anal play experience more enjoyable.

Is this a joint decision?

If you will be using the toy with a partner, try to pick one out together. This will make the experience of using it more enjoyable as well as allowing you to explore one anothers fantasies and tastes. . Be sure that you are both comfortable with the decision. If your partner suggests a 9 incher and you feel that is just to big, be sure to express your feelings.

I am still unsure, any suggestions?

Our customer service reps are happy to assist you in the purchase of your new sex toy. Just tell us the size range and type of stimulation you are looking for (e.g. anal, vaginal, clitoral) and we'll send you a corresponding list of sex toys to choose from!