Cunnilingus is an oral sex technique. The word can be defined as: oral stimulation of a woman's genitals by a partner's lips, mouth, and/or tongue.

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Cunnilingus

What is Cunnilingus?
Cunnilingus is an oral sex technique. The word can be defined as: oral stimulation of a woman's genitals by a partner's lips, mouth, and/or tongue. The word itself is latin, cunnis, meaning vulva (a woman's exterior genitals), and lingerie, the latin word for licking. Put it together and you get vulva licking, or better known as oral sex. Generally, the woman's genitals are stimulated by licking and sucking with direct contact to the clitoris.

Is This Enjoyable?
You bet it is! It seems to me that women either love or hate oral sex. In my experiences and conversations, the majority of women I've talked to absolutely love it, when they can get their partner to preform. In fact, many women claim they can only achieve orgasm through oral sex.

Ok, So How Do I Do It?
Every woman is different, and here is where communication in a relationship is important. You want your experience to be as pleasureable as possible, so don't be afraid to speak up. The more turned on you are, the more turned on your partner will be. If your partner is shy, pay attention to muscle tension and movements, as this will tune you into how she feels.

Very basiclly, to perform cunnilingus, kiss and lick her genitals, especially to the clitoris. You may even try gently sucking the labia or inserting your tongue into the vagina.

Improving Your Technique
There are things you can do to improve your oral sex technique. As a women, I can attest to the fact that often, men jump the gun and head strait for the clitoris. Slow down, relax and enjoy the ride. Too often, couples rush sex. Set aside a good hour or two to share with your partner.

Start off by kissing the stomach, thighs, the mons (the area above the clitoris). Massage her vulva with your hands and slowy kiss the areas surrounding the clitoris. Make her really want you to go all out. Slowly increase pressure and and speed. And for you women, make sure you are communicating in some way with your partner so they know you're ready.

Change your motions by switching directions with your tongue. You can change the pressure you apply just by stiffining your tongue, which will apply more of a direct pressure than allowing it to be "limp". Just remember that every woman is different. Ask her if she likes it slow and soft, or hard and fast, or somewhere in between.

Lubrications can also add enhancement in cunnilingus. Some lubrications provide a tingling sensasation which many women find very erotic.

I don't have a partner, are there sex toys out there?
Yes! There are tongue vibrators that can mimic the feeling of oral sex.

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