Fellatio

Wondering how to perform fellatio like a porn star? Look no further, everything you need to know about fellatio is here!

What is Fellatio?
Fellatio is the art (as I like to call it) of giving good head. Others refer to it as deepthroat, blow job, cock sucking, dick licking... The list goes on and on. Fellatio is simply preforming oral sex on a man. Oral sex, for those of you who don't know, is defined as: stimulation of a partner's genitals with your mouth, tongue and/or lips.

How To Perform Fellatio
Keep in mind everyone is different. People like different things when it comes to sex, after all, uniqueness is what makes the human race so wonderful. While I like to think of fellatio as an art, there really is much to it if you're in tune to your partner's feelings. Don't be afraid to converse in what feels good, and more importantly, what doesn't.

Some men like very light licks, sucks and kisses, while others like their partner to go "balls-to-the-wall" fitting their whole manhood in their mouth. The key to giving good head and performing fellatio is relaxation. You need to be very relaxed when performing fellatio, especially if your partner likes deepthroat. Your throat is a muscle, that will contract if tense, but when nice and relaxed, you'll be amazed at what you can fit in there! You swallow food everyday, it is actually a very natural act. Most of us probably wouldn't think twice about swallowing a drink or a piece of food, so think of fellatio this way. Start slow and only fit what you feel comfortable with. If that means you only get 1/2 inch in your mouth, that's fine. You'll become more and more comfortable with the feeling, the thought and the act of swallowing your partner's cock.

Sarah's Guide to Performing Fellatio:

1. Stay relaxed! If you aren't relaxed, try again later. His dick isn't going anywhere you don't want it to.
2. Communicate with your partner. Have him tell you what feels good and what doesn't. Ask if he likes it sucked, deep, slow, fast, or licked.
3. Try different variations of pressure and different motions with your tongue.
4. If your partner is circumsized, find his scar, this is the most sensitive area of the penis. Try licking or sucking this area.
5. Don't go too fast. It probably won't go in as far as you'd like it to the first few times, just stick with it.
6. Position can be everything! Try multiple positions and find which you are comfortable with, your throat might open wider and stay more relaxed in different positions.
7. Feel the muscles of your throat and massage them. Swallow a few times get the feeling of your throat opening. Practice keeping your throat "open".
8. Pratice fellatio with a sex toy. This takes a lot of the pressure off since you're not performing in front of someone. Set goals everyday, and eventually, you'll be a deepthroat pro!

What About The "Gag Factor"?
So you're worried about gagging... Well, all I can say is, it probably will happen. I used to worry about it, and the thought would consume me. I couldn't relax. Once I overcame this, fellatio was a breeze. Some have a more pronounced gag factor than others, but this doesn't mean you won't overcome it. At first, you will probably gag more than you will once you become nice and relaxed. It's ok to do so, it doesn't mean that you will throw up all over your partner's dick! Just remeber to relax, and start with only what you feel comfortable with.

These Seems So One Sided!
I know, I know, so what's in it for you right?? Women are so often neglected in the bedroom, why would we want to give more??! I used to think sucking dick and giving head was so one sided I refused to perform. I hated the thought of giving a blowjob, but there were times where I'd throw in the towel, buckle down and do it. It wasn't until I met the right partner that my thoughts on fellatio changed. The experience was so much different than what I had before, one day it dawned on me. Think of how much trust your partner must have in you to let you perform fellatio. Yes, while you are down there doing the work, he is up there putting all of his trust in you. This makes for a very erotic experience. While the ammount of trust my partner put it me turned me on, so did knowing how turned on he was. Knowing how much I was turning him on sent me over the edge!

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